Games are very important not only as fun but as an opportunity for observing, learning and understanding how to relate to each other. Games should always be practiced before using, and to whatever extent possible, the Dad/ Son/ Daughter should be involved in the selection and testing of the game. Maximum involvement of all tribe members is as important as the selection of the game itself. The game should not be played unless both Big and Little Graves/ Princesses participate. Be sure to explain the game clearly and completely, demonstrating any part of it as may be necessary. Let your own enthusiasm show, and have a clear starting point so that all will know when the game has begun.